What’s a dead giveaway that someone is not a good person? I’ll go first, people who give back-handed compliments. They’ll say something like, “You are so confident for someone your size.”
A nice person doesn’t need to announce they’re nice. Another contributor says that if someone describes themselves as nice or reasonable, they probably do not have those traits.
Whenever their friend got a higher score on an exam, their mom wanted to parse out why. She would come up with a strategy of how to beat them. This destroyed them and added a lot of stress and anxiety to their life.
Another commenter shares that when she was in their early 20s, she had a boyfriend who lived in her bedroom at their parent’s home. He refused to thank her parents for housing and feeding him.
For example, someone who had not talked to them in five months would call them asking if they still had their truck as they needed to move something. Before this, they had attempted to hang out but never succeeded.